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7 Things I Learned from My Brothers


Having three brothers (and no sisters) is always an adventure. I’ve had to learn to hold my own and life wasn’t always the easiest. With the four of us being born in roughly 4 1/2 years, things would tend to get a bit crazy around my house. There was loads of fighting, lots of yelling, yet you almost always had someone to play with. To say the least, my brothers have taught me so much throughout my 20 years of existence. Continue reading “7 Things I Learned from My Brothers”


It’s Okay to Hate Being Single

I’ve been single for my entire 20 years of life. I’ve never had a boyfriend, I’ve never been kissed, hell.. the highlight of my love life is the one time I got told I had nice hands to hold while two of my friends and I were guiding each other through the dark. Nothing says “romantic” quite like freaking out because you’re a little bit scared of the dark.

And do you know what? I hate being single! Continue reading “It’s Okay to Hate Being Single”

Why You Should Date Yourself

Relationships are a beautiful thing. Having someone there for you when you need it most, someone to love and love you back, and someone to cuddle with all sound incredible. Even watching your friends in relationships is beautiful sometimes. However, sometimes it’s nice to date yourself. Continue reading “Why You Should Date Yourself”

15 Things Single People Are Tired of Hearing


Being single in a world full of relationships is hard! And sometimes you just get tired of hearing your friends, family, and relative nag you about being single. So… take note!! These are things we’re a bit tired of hearing. Continue reading “15 Things Single People Are Tired of Hearing”

10 Perks to Being Single

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Being single doesn’t always have to suck. In fact, I can think of many great reasons to be single! Continue reading “10 Perks to Being Single”

Ladies, This is What You Deserve

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I’ve watched too many of my friends and family members settle for what they don’t deserve. As women, many of us seem to be very vulnerable and outspoken. We don’t seem to be taken seriously or respected to the extent that we should. We seem to be looked at as objects at times and have for some reason decided to settle with that.

Continue reading “Ladies, This is What You Deserve”

Why I Don’t Want to be a Proverbs 31 Woman

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I have many beautiful Christian friends, and believe me when I tell you that these girls are absolutely incredible. They’re smart, they’re talented, and they’re over all kind-hearted. Many of these young women strive to be as much of a Proverbs 31 woman as possible, and I fully support them in that. However, I don’t want be a Proverbs 31 woman. Continue reading “Why I Don’t Want to be a Proverbs 31 Woman”

What it Feels Like to be Heartbroken, but Never in Love

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Seeing your name pop up everywhere I look is definitely not helping me from moving on from you. You being one of my best friends isn’t helping much either. You truly were an accidental crush and the rejection hurts (even if it wasn’t straight up rejection.) And no matter how much I want to keep being friends with you, and no matter how much I care about you, I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t still a tiny bit hurt. Continue reading “What it Feels Like to be Heartbroken, but Never in Love”

15 Things I Learned in 2015

2015 was quite the year! I started it off by working a closing shift only to open the next day, I went to a Super Bowl party with a bunch of friends, I was able to rekindle some of my greatest friendship, I spent spring break traveling to see friends, I worked with some absolutely incredible people this summer, and I just recently finished my first semester back at college after a 3 semester long break and earned a 3.099 GPA. Continue reading “15 Things I Learned in 2015”

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